I haven’t posted anything in a while.
I’m not upset about that – I haven’t really felt like writing. Maybe it’s because things have been a little crazy. Some major events happened over the past few months:
1. I got married.
2. I went to Prague.
3. My father died.
#3 actually happened first. My father died almost exactly one month before my wedding. Being so sad and so happy at the same time is quite a challenge. And mentally exhausting. This was on top of the stress of planning a wedding in it’s final stages. I really just didn’t have time to write. At least,that was my excuse.
The truth is, I’ve loved to write since I was about 9 years old, when after a class assignment to write a short story about a polar bear, I discovered not only did I enjoy doing it, but I was pretty good at it, too! Every week, I looked forward to Fridays, when we got the chance to write another story. Writing was my passion. Through the years, my focus on it has ebbed and flowed – but I always come back to it. I admit I have many passions; but writing is and always will be the one ring to rule them all.
So why did I stop? Having no time was definitely a contributing factor – but not because I actually had no time for it – I just wasn’t making time for it and I believe that was intentional. When life gets too heavy, I push writing away out of fear. Writing for me, is about truth – about sharing a part of you that no one sees. Sometimes, when life becomes “too much,” I don’t really want anyone to see that.
Another big reason I stopped blogging in particular was because I had stopped baking – I really didn’t have time for that, what with wedding crafts, family visits, vendor meetings, etc. So no baking = no blogging. That thought depressed me. Why should I have to stop writing just because I had stopped baking? Well, duh, I don’t. There are no rules in writing! That’s the beauty of the craft! So, I stripped away the limitations, and redid the blog. It’s still called Small Indulgences. It will still have recipes and baking adventures. But that’s only part of the fun. Living a life full of Small Indulgences – that’s what I want to do, and that’s what I want to write about. Having coffee with an old friend – that’s a Small Indulgence. Taking a Stand Up Paddle Boarding class with my husband (I still smile when I get to call him that) – that’s a Small Indulgence. Scratching my cat Gandalf the Gray behind the ears until he starts purring – that’s a Small Indulgence. Heck, watching the next episode of Game of Thrones is even a Small Indulgence! The little things we enjoy, that make us smile and warm our hearts – these are the things that matter. These are what life is all about. These are things worth sharing. And hence forth, they will be shared.
It’s not the size that counts; its how you live it.
So let’s get out there and live. 🙂
5 thoughts on “When Life Happens.”
Lovely blog, so sorry for your loss… Love the ‘it’s how you live it!’ I am a huge advocate of that.
A lot fo your personal remarks resonate with me as I loved to write from a young age, and just stopped as life got in the way. Hopefully we can both put an end to that – I look forward to reading more of your posts – A Wandering Memory
Thank you so much for your kind words, and for reading. 🙂
My pleasure – hope mine is as interesting 🙂
Very sorry for the loss of your father. Life is full of so much suffering. I am also happy for your new beginnings. Congrats on being a newlywed in love. It is great to hear that you are able to find gratitude in life during its ups and downs.
Blessings to you and your family, Namaste
Thank you for your thoughtful words. Gratitude really makes all the difference. Namaste!